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Sunday 7 September 2014

Revealed -Real reason Anita Oyakhilome filed for divorce

There have been allegations that Anita Oyakhilome was divorcing Pastor Chris because of adultery.However,new reports show adultery may not be the main reason. 
A copy of the court papers for the divorce process filed at the Principal Registry of the Family Division (PRFD) of the High Court of Justice in possession of , revealed that she applied for “divorce on the ground that the marriage has broken down irretrievably.”

According to Thisday,In her statement of case in support of petition at PRFD with number FD14001650, Pastor Anita however, accused her husband of having inappropriate relationship with some of his female staff members.

According to the statement,
 “the wife has discussed with the husband his appropriate relationship with some of his female staff members. She has explained that this has given her cause for concern. The husband has minimised her worries and taken no step to alleviate her grievances.”In fact, the statement indicated no allegation of adultery as there was no co-respondent to the petition and no names were mentioned.Dictionary.com defines adultery as “voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse.”
The statement reads in part: “The wife submits that her marriage to the husband has irretrievably broken down and there is no hope of reconciliation. The wife will submit that it is the husband’s unreasonable behaviours which have led to this.

“The husband and the wife are both Pastors. The husband undertakes his work, in the main, in South Africa and Nigeria. The wife lives in the United Kingdom. The wife will say that they have lived separately for 16 years and over this time have drifted apart. The wife has come to realise that the husband will only visit the UK for annual church programmes that he holds rather than to be with this wife. The wife feels that he has been unavailable as a father to their children during their developing years.


“The wife feels that their marriage suffered under the pressure of their work. They would rarely spend time together due to the husband unavailability. Special occasions such as Christmas, Birthdays and family occasions and anniversaries past them by and their rarely spent any time together as a family as the husband was more devoted to his work than he was to them.


“The wife feels that she has been used to portray and enhance the husband’s image as a family man when the reality is that there is no existing relationship between them. She feels that she has been present for official functions simply for his convenience. On occasions she has been copied into his travel itinerary which has been given to him by his staff on a need to know basis.
“The wife has tried to discuss her concerns with the husband. He claims that she is carnal and he is insensitive to her feelings and her needs.”

“As a result of the husband’s attitude to their marriage, the wife will say that he is virtually not recognised as a married man in the ministry. His teachings and beliefs on marriage is that the husband is a master and a controller and the wife will say that his concept of biblical; submission is so extreme that it is impossible for her to meet his expectations. She feels humiliated by the way he treats her in the presence of his close female staff members and she feels that she has been taken for granted which has become unbearably stressful for her.

“The wife will say that the relationship with the husband is non-existent to the point that his itinerary which was announced publicly at the beginning of the year had no provision for time with his family. His staff members who travel with him organise both his personal and professional life without any input from her. The wife will say that she is treated with disregard almost like akin to an intruder.
“The wife feels that she has been mentally, physically and emotionally deprived of the experience of a marital relationship. She feels that the husband has persistently judged her and his communication with her has been unduly harsh. The wife knows that he was hard to please and has been extremely critical.
“The wife reserves the right to expand on all of these particulars if the divorce petition is defended.”

47 comments:

  1. Letting strange people interfer in ur marriage is a vip ticket to downfall,even if he's cheating,if u pray and u both sit and talk u'll work it out,think of ur children,I pray my future husband does not cheat on me,but if he does,I cannot kill myself,I'll only tell him not to give me disease,men it's in their gene to cheat

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    1. Same goes to women, nobody is perfect.

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    2. Not all men are cheat! PORTABLE

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    3. Lol.. u will tell him not to give u disease and he will nod and say yes my wife right? Shey u wil put micro camera in his gbontus to knw weda he wears condom on it b4 he sleeps with his mistress(es)

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    4. I tot marriage is for beta n for worse biko

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    5. Not everything that glitters is gold

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    6. I could be wrong, but the idea of marriage is that and woman should come together and become as one... In my opinion sending your wife to live in another country for over 16 yrs to raise two kids while you both hardly see each other when you visit the city of your so-called wife doesn't qualify as marriage to me

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    7. On my way back from church we met our former course mate, Tina, Tina was the girl that never studied, rarely attended classes, and she used to secretly 'eat' her school fees while all we did was admonish her to take education more secretly.

      Today, she runs her own successful boutique and when we asked her where she got the money from, she said it was a fraction of the stupid schoolfees she never paid.
      We that almost died ontop night class are still roaming from Ojoto to Lekki jobless.
      You went to church today, did you say a prayer for the unemployed? No! Of course you only think of yourself!
      You that is pressing work clothes for this week have you thought of the unemployed? No! They can remain jobless for all you care!
      You that have a fixed bank account for salaries, have you thought of the unemployed surviving on kobos? No! You don't owe them anything.
      We have sent our CVs to all companies in Nigeria yet no word from them!

      WHO ARE WE? TWO UNEMPLOYED GIRLS! ( GRADUATES OF BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION)
      WHAT DO WE NEED? A JOB!
      WHEN DO WE WANT IT? NOW!
      THE INTERNET WOULD KNOW NO PEACE TILL OUR NEEDS ARE MET!

      Twitter is @2unemploydgirls
      Email is 2unemployedgirls@gmail.com

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  2. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    Seriously this people matter don take over the shine of boko haram and ebola disease i swear..... Emeh thanks for the recharge card, am really gratefull.....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  3. *sigh* I feel this woman but they should stay together because of their children. Her kids are her husband she should stay Glues to them. She can't achieve both at once To raise her kids and go after her husband that's long lost. God help them. Some of our mothers are in their husband's house because of their kids.

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  4. I am not suprised.He looks like a womanizer sef.

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  5. Chris forgot he married a white woman, they can file for a divorce any reason. Imagine my canadian neighbour dat divorced her husband juz becuz he snored 3 times while taking a nap.

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    1. Shut up....She is not a white woman..... She is an Edo girl with a Swiss mother....Raised in Naija, from the popular Egbodaghe family....She has been a good wife to Pastor Chris, but he also disrespected her by having affairs with his female staff, some of which live with him in his house, where his wife and her family members are not allowed.

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    2. Hahaha snored three times

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  6. Hmm such a pity...dunno y dey hav chosen to air their dirty laundry outside for d whole world to see. I guess she felt neglected nd insecure in d marriage : anyways dey should either get divorced or stay together, their choice but d drama is getting too much abeg!!

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  7. Pastors are cheats and womanizers. That is why they always marry fine women.their eye dey chook

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  8. Pastor chris!! How many times I call u? Daris God oo

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  9. Lols, wonders shall never end God will keep on exposing dem one by one.
    #Nwa Imo#

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  10. I feel her plight as a woman....but there better ways to go about it than filing for divorce...

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  11. They'll sought it out!

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  12. Hw can u live apart frm ur huzbd for 16yrs n expect to still b close? Haba, nt justifying his actions but mehn body no b wood na. Eme I never get my recharge oh, amazinggracegina@gmail.com mtn

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  13. pastors re human too.frget wt dey preach

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  14. *ojoro cancel baby o*** in wizkid's voice

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  15. Konjı Na Bastard! Lmao! They should leave the man öf God alone.. After all no Man Of God In the bıble that dıd not sin agaınst God from the begınnıng öf tıme... I will be puttıng them in my daıly prayers.. IT İŞ WELL

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  16. Pls you'll shld help me tank Jimmy Kings, he isn't in Nigeria buh told Emeh to give his card to me and Emeh jst did dat and I can't stop tanking dem, tank u so much Jimmy Kings GGMUB. chaii I feel so much love. (No homo ooo)

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  17. Lol vizzy., nd ur welcome...guess d woman is a German, said Google..there privacy is no longer private.

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    1. Tank u, I sent u a mail buh dnt knw y it didn't deliver.

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  18. I just pray that God will intervene. I love his preaching.
    DLOVE

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  19. Loaded Emeh's recharge card. wow! almost shouted Allah wakbar in church today. lol. thank u Emeh

    Omo Oba (formerly known as Shrek)

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    1. Lmao dem no run think say na bomb? Emeh rocks

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  20. Story, story, story. Many altered reports are coming in. NG

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  21. Emeh thank you so much for the card,hakeem God bless you

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  22. *sigh* if this is true then both parties are @ faul they should sort themselves out biko. I know my hakeem,he wouldn't do this to me :p

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  23. What a wicked man.Just left the woman like a stick yuck

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  24. This is just sad. I wish her the best

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  25. Pastor chris is a handsome man.so.i dont really blame him.Do you know how many hot single and married females seduce in while he is preaching in pulpit?How many of you ladies can swear that you dont date married men?Some ladies even boast that'na aristo dey pay pass,single guys to stingy'If na me be pastor chris i go fall too.The kind hot chicks wey dey christ embassy ehn .

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  27. BLOG ANALYSER: hmmm! I feel sad for them. Journalism at its peak, direct from the source hope they don't sue them

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  28. Am sure of 1 tin, d divorce won't work, this's more or less 2 make him know how she feels n possibly drag His name to d mud. They will sort tins out by themselves. I feel 4 her.

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  29. Vizzy wat is, God GMUB? i guess. Didnt kno why it didnt go oo, mail.

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